WELCOME, I'M SO GLAD YOU ARE HERE!
Helping families break painful communication patterns with truth, compassion, and emotional safety.
You don’t have to keep repeating the cycles that leave everyone overwhelmed, shut down, or misunderstood.
I help parents, couples, and communities shift the emotional and communication patterns shaping their relationships so they can finally experience clarity, connection, and peace that lasts.
Healing begins the moment you understand the pattern.
Helping families break painful communication patterns with truth, compassion, and emotional safety.
You don’t have to keep repeating the cycles that leave everyone overwhelmed, shut down,
or misunderstood.
I help parents, couples, and communities shift the emotional and communication patterns shaping their relationships so they can finally experience clarity, connection, and peace that lasts.
Healing begins the moment you understand the pattern.
The 5 Stages of Grief Don't Explain Your Child's Reactions —
But this will.
Your child’s grief isn’t linear, predictable, or stage-based — it shows up in their behavior long before they can put words to what they feel. This quick quiz, powered by the Griefprint framework, helps you understand the emotional pattern beneath their reactions so you know exactly how to support them.
You’ll learn what their behavior is really communicating, why certain moments feel harder
than others, and how to respond in ways that create safety instead of shutdowns. A clear, compassionate starting point for parents navigating loss, stress, or any major transition.
The 5 Stages of Grief Don't Explain Your Child's Reactions —
But this will.
Your child’s grief isn’t linear, predictable, or stage-based — it shows up in their behavior long before they can put words to what they feel. This quick quiz, powered by the Griefprint framework, helps you understand the emotional pattern beneath their reactions so you know exactly how to support them.
You’ll learn what their behavior is really communicating, why certain moments feel harder than others, and how to respond in ways that create safety instead of shutdowns. A clear, compassionate starting point for parents navigating loss, stress, or any major transition.
“For the first time in five years, I believe I can change, grow,
and learn for the betterment of this partnership.”
– PRIVATE CLIENT
Here’s how I can help you transform your family’s communication patterns:
Insight Sessions (PCM-Based)
You learn the communication, stress, and behavioral patterns shaping your relationships—some learned, some inherited, all changeable once understood. Using the Process Communication Model®, I help you decode how you show up under pressure and what each person needs to feel seen and understood. You walk away with practical tools to break old cycles, repair with clarity, and create emotional safety in real-time moments.
GriefPrint Framework
Grief doesn’t just live in the heart—it lives in the body, the nervous system, and the way families relate to one another. GriefPrint helps you understand the emotional imprints driving reactions (yours and your child’s) so you can support your family with presence instead of pressure. You’ll learn why behaviors shift during stress, how to respond with clarity and compassion, and how to create a new emotional legacy rooted in honesty and connection.
Journal Creation
Journaling is a powerful way to understand your emotions and reconnect with yourself during seasons of grief or growth. I create guided journals with thoughtful prompts, supportive structure, and space to explore what’s true for you. Whether you’re processing loss, strengthening parent–child connection, or healing old patterns, these journals help you move with more clarity and compassion. Custom journals are also available for individuals, families, and organizations.
Here’s how I can help you transform your family’s communication patterns:
Insight Sessions (PCM-Based)
You learn the communication, stress, and behavioral patterns shaping your relationships—some learned, some inherited, all changeable once understood. Using the Process Communication Model®, I help you decode how you show up under pressure and what each person needs to feel seen and understood. You walk away with practical tools to break old cycles, repair with clarity, and create emotional safety in real-time moments.
GriefPrint Framework
Grief doesn’t just live in the heart—it lives in the body, the nervous system, and the way families relate to one another. GriefPrint helps you understand the emotional imprints driving reactions (yours and your child’s) so you can support your family with presence instead of pressure. You’ll learn why behaviors shift during stress, how to respond with clarity and compassion, and how to create a new emotional legacy rooted in honesty and connection.
Journal Creation
Journaling is a powerful way to understand your emotions and reconnect with yourself during seasons of grief or growth. I create guided journals with thoughtful prompts, supportive structure, and space to explore what’s true for you. Whether you’re processing loss, strengthening parent–child connection, or healing old patterns, these journals help you move with more clarity and compassion. Custom journals are also available for individuals, families, and organizations.
About Dr. Annette
your grief whisperer, guide, and healer.
Use this area to tell your story. Talk about your failure when you first started looking for a solution. Maybe there was a conspiracy against you, a false belief, a misunderstanding.
Pattern-Shifting with Truth and Compassion
I help parents, couples, and communities understand the emotional and generational patterns running the show—so they can finally communicate in ways that create safety instead of shutdown. With over 20 years in the mental-health field, a Ph.D. in Counseling, and deep personal experience with grief, I blend research, trauma-informed care, and practical tools that work in real homes, classrooms, and relationships.
Healing Through Awareness & Action
My work centers on emotional safety, communication that holds up under stress, and supporting families through grief, transitions, and conflict. Whether through Insight Sessions, GriefPrint, or speaking events, my goal
is simple: to help people build relationships rooted
in clarity, connection, and truth.
My work centers on emotional safety, communication that holds up under stress, and supporting families through grief, transitions, and conflict. Whether through Insight Sessions, GriefPrint, or speaking events,
my goal is simple: to help people build relationships
rooted in clarity, connection, and truth.
STRAIGHT FROM MY HAPPY CUSTOMERS
I honestly learned so much from you and will be eternally grateful.
You are really changing lives!
Anonymous Private Client
Insight Sessions
These one-on-one sessions help you break long-standing communication patterns by understanding the stress behaviors and emotional loops that keep pulling your family back into the same conflicts. You’ll gain clarity on what each person needs to feel understood and receive practical tools you can use immediately. Perfect for parents or couples ready to shift their relationship dynamic for good.
GriefPrint
This experience helps you understand how grief lives in the body, behavior, and bonds—especially for children. You’ll uncover inherited patterns, stress responses, and emotional imprints that influence communication. With compassionate guidance, you’ll learn how to support yourself and your family with presence, wisdom, and a new emotional language.
Journal Creation
These guided journals help you make sense of your emotions, reconnect with yourself, and build emotional safety through seasons of grief or growth. With thoughtful prompts and supportive structure, each journal gives you space to explore patterns, express truth, and deepen connection—whether with yourself or your child. You’ll find journals for grief, inner child healing, and parent–child communication, along with custom options for families, groups, and organizations.
“Annette’s presentations were the most useful behavior-related trainings
I’ve had in 22 years of teaching. She explained the why behind behavior
and gave specific strategies I could use the same day. Her feedback was
realistic, effective, and grounded in deep knowledge of how kids actually work.”
– TARYN O., ELEMENTARY TEACHER & MOTHER
“Annette’s presentations were the most useful behavior-related trainings I’ve had in 22 years of teaching. She explained the why behind behavior and gave specific strategies I could use the same day. Her feedback was realistic, effective, and grounded in deep knowledge of how kids actually work.”
– TARYN O., ELEMENTARY TEACHER
& MOTHER
Helping families build emotionally safe, connected relationships —
one honest conversation at a time.
Helping families build emotionally safe, connected relationships —one honest conversation at a time.
“Annette’s presentations were the most useful behavior-related trainings
I’ve had in 22 years of teaching. She explained the why behind behavior
and gave specific strategies I could use the same day. Her feedback was
realistic, effective, and grounded in deep knowledge of how kids actually work.”
– TARYN O., ELEMENTARY TEACHER & MOTHER
“Annette’s presentations were the most useful behavior-related trainings I’ve had in 22 years of teaching. She explained the why behind behavior and gave specific strategies I could use the same day. Her feedback was realistic, effective, and grounded in deep knowledge of how kids actually work.”
– TARYN O., ELEMENTARY TEACHER
& MOTHER
Helping families build emotionally safe, connected relationships —
one honest conversation at a time.
Helping families build emotionally safe, connected relationships —one honest conversation at a time.
Annette Athy, LLC 2025 - All Rights Reserved - Terms & Conditions - Privacy - Disclaimer - Contact Us
